Wow, I can’t believe he’s gone. My good friend Gary Lott made his final exit Monday night. He was fine one moment and the next, he was gone. It’s been heart breaking. His wife Andrea is an amazing, strong woman. Her openness during her grief has been such a gift to her friends.
Sean’s response upon hearing of Gary’s death was, “He called me, Dude.” I can hear Gary’s voice in my head saying it. I hope I never forget the sound. As Gary and Andrea’s friends gather around her in support I see a pattern. Together they have built a network of people with all the positive qualities of humanity. All their friends are loving, passionate, and giving. Andrea and Hannah have no option but to eventually be ok as they are surrounded by such people.
I’ve been avoiding my blog for the last few days, but it’s time to get back to it and I couldn’t seem to find a way without mentioning Gary. So there it is. My tribute to Gary, “Thanks Dude, for opening up your world to me. You will be terribly missed.”